Many families of deaf children had reported that the second implant center
in our area was more liberal with implanting children and later learned it was the leading implant center in the Southeastern
part of the USA. We knew that the center we currently went to was very conservative with implanting kids that were not cut
and dry candidates. We decided to take Jake to the other center in February of 1998, right after he turned 4 years old.
Below are his aided and unaided audiograms that were done at this center.
He completed the cochlear implant evaluations and was still considered
a borderline candidate, but the center was starting to implant severe to profound children, especially if their language was
lagging like his was. We hadn't even thought much about the issue of the implant with auditory neuropathy since we weren't
sure if that was actually his problem after all the insinuations that he didn't actually have auditory neuropathy. The audiology
team at this center said that they would prefer to go into this carefully since he did initially have OAE's with an absent
We were still lost in the conflicting diagnoses we had received. Did
he have AN or not? YES! We learned that he still had auditory neuropathy, even though his OAE's were absent now. It was like
getting the diagnosis all over again for me. We spoke to Dr. Berlin and learned that there were three or four auditory neuropathy
children that had been implanted so far and there wasn't sufficient documentation of successes or failures for us. It was
just too soon to tell if it was a good idea in Jake's case. This time, depression took over and was much worse than it had
ever been. The only thing that gave me the will to go on, to live and breathe, was knowing that Jake needed me to succeed.
We decided to try some different strategies at home over the summer
to see if he did any better. We also did a lot of soul searching and spent time with our families trying to decide what was
best for Jake. He made nice progress but was still falling further and further behind his hearing peers. He couldn't communicate
and was becoming more and more withdrawn. He tried very hard to communicate with his neighborhood pals but wound up frustrated
when they couldn't understand him. He wanted to speak so badly, I'm sure he knew what he was saying but we couldn't understand
what he wanted much of the time. We tried to get him to cue but he was determined to talk and not use cues. He would even
tell us not to cue and if I continued he would close his eyes and say "Use WORDS!" But, when we used just words alone he didn't
always get the message, got more agitated and the behavior problems escalated. The whole family was becoming distressed with
the situation and I figured we had to do something different to try to help him, for our sanity, and his.
In September of 1998, we decided to check into the cochlear implant again
but the first available appointment was in October, so we waited. During this time, I began to seek out the other families
that had already gotten implants for their AN kids to find out how they were doing at that point. When we returned in October
the center agreed that Jake would most likely get some benefit from it. They were pleased with his progress but agreed that
he need something done to provide him better access to spoken language. They didn't foresee the audiogram getting any better than his past aided
audiograms had been, but felt that it would give him clarity. Finally, someone agreed with me that just because he responded
to a sound in the booth didn't mean he could understand speech enough to reproduce it. He had some speech recognition skills
in isolation but when you were talking in sentences and there was competing background noise he was lost.
By November's end, we had decided to have him implanted with the Clarion
S-Series cochlear implant. I had been very interested in the Med-El implant but it was in clinical trials for children and
I knew my insurance wouldn't pay for it. So, the Clarion it was. Jake was excited because most of the deaf children he knows
already had an implant and now he was getting one too. I was terrified that it wouldn't work for him but I felt we really
had no other choice at the time.
We scheduled surgery for two days after his fifth birthday and were
very anxious about the outcome. The afternoon before the surgery my health insurance decided that they had approved in error
because the Clarion was still in clinical trials for children. This wasn't the case; the implant center had faxed the information
to them twice, including the FDA approval letter. After hours of our audiologist and surgeon battling over the phone with
those irritating people that call themselves "customer service representatives", the surgery had to be postponed. We
could postpone the procedure or keep him without food and water until we heard from the insurance company's home office the
next day. With Jake's age and the communication problems, we knew he wouldn't understand why he could not have any food. So
we canceled the surgery. I was devastated, I knew it would happen later but I had psyched myself up that it was going to happen
then and work out for us. I remember trying to stay calm until I could get off the phone with Carolyn, the audiologist. All
is took was for her to say, "Elaine, are you sure you are okay?" to start the river of tears. Of course it was approved the
next day, but we had to wait another month to get back in the surgery schedule.